I would have lost my mind if I hadn't had this place to come to and complain. And I did. Every single day sometimes twice. People read my posts and if I lost any friends, I'm not aware of it. You have no idea how I admire you for handling things the way you are doing, and how glad I am that even though they don't always do things as fast (*as I would like them done*) you have your BIL and sister there and they keep you informed. That's me. But remember, you get to treat yourself with the same kind of kindness and care you have for your Dad. I think you are amazing.