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at one point Holden sleeps over at a former teacher's house and wakes up to find that teacher patting his head, which prompts Holden to leave.

And I guess we can interpret that scene and the teacher's motive in a lot of ways, but I gotta say, I never expected one of those ways to be "Well, it's obviously innocuous, and the fact that Holden interpreted it as a sexual advance proves he's lying about the 20 times he claims he's been the victim of sexual assault already".

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Utopia for Realists

30 May 2025 10:14
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I heard an interview in NYT with Rutger Bregman that really got my attention so I wanted to read his books - I started with Utopia for Realists.

In the interview, he was talking about climate change and how we can make the world a better place. He said a lot of people focus on NOT doing things. Don't use plastic, don't buy from bad companies, don't have kids. But using that mentality, you can achieve "net zero at best". The best thing you could really do for the planet is not exist at all. He wants us to have loftier goals. Some of the brightest minds we have are going to top schools, then to technology companies where they figure out how to make people click ads. Is that really what they wanted? We should attract the brightest minds to the puzzle of improving the world. Moral Ambition, he called it. Don't just negate your own bad effects on the climate, subtract MORE. Pick up your trash, AND the litter somebody else left - now you are net positive.

Cool!

So I picked up this 2014 book, he's got more, but here's the gist: Technology and progress have simplified our lives. 70 years ago when we were first getting things like dishwashers, we were really worried that we'd have so much leisure time we'd go crazy! But that is not what happened.

We didn't use progress to shorten our work weeks and make life easier. We used it to over-consume. When jobs were replaced by robots, we got really competitive and divisive about the remaining ones, further dividing the world's wealth and access to opportunity. So let's say we get so good that eventually you only need, like, 30 people to run the robots and the other 8 billion could just hang out. Do we make the 8 billion people starve because they're not working?

We are really stuck in this idea that people who aren't working are flawed and lazy and bad. But he lists several studies where we just gave them money and they thrived. They didn't descend into addiction - in fact the former addicts overcame it with a little help. People in poor villages started businesses, educated their children, lived healthier lives. The poor are experts in what it takes to not be poor. But politically it's a real mess to suggest just giving people money.

He loves shorter work weeks. 40 hours wasn't always a given, at one time people definitely thought we should spend 12x7 in factories, won't kids get into trouble if they're just running around? But Henry Ford thought that if his employees had some spare time, they'd be more productive, more loyal, happier, and they'd buy cars for weekend trips. He was right. And that's why we have it. A big experiment, that worked.

So he's like, why not experiment with a 15 hour work week? And universal basic income, and open borders so you're not predestined to your class by birthright?

I AGREE but I imagined myself explaining this book to my conservative family members - who always told me about how socialists are evil and destroy everything because there's no practical way to make people equal by bringing the bottom up, you can only bring the top down. Lower classes are inevitable, because a lot of people are lazy and need motivation and the thread of death/starvation to do anything. Okay they're not THAT mean about it but - but they really love trickle down economics, despite all evidence.

Maybe the problem is that we've all known some spoiled kid who doesn't want to do the dishes, so we think that's what humans descend to?

We are so scared of people "mooching" we are letting billions of people starve, all the time, every year. He says don't give up on changing it. For our world to survive, we must figure out a distribution system. People do change and come around. Evidence does get shared, eventually, and believed in.

It's a tough year to remember that, isn't it? But I'm trying.

Perfection

30 May 2025 07:05
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The sun out there is blazing. But I'm at my table with no sun on me!! The shades are just perfect. They let in a good amount of light and NO sun. It's like having a shade tree over my living room. Yahoo!!

I got notice today that my license tabs need renewing. The amount to renew is $95. That seems way cheaper. I looked up the last few years (thank you, Gmail) and, discovered that last year was the same, I just didn't notice but the previous years included a $40 Seattle tax. Suburb discount!

I got a note from BretTheRealtor last night saying that he had had the condo cleaned and everything was signed and the money paid and closing would happen today. If all is signed and the money is paid... what exactly happens at 'a closing'??? In the olden days, the buyers and the sellers sit down, sign shit, hand over the check in exchange the for keys and kiss kiss, you were closed. I don't even have the keys and no one needs me to go anywhere or do anything else. I guess some magic fairy waves a wand and boom. it's a done deal. I don't care as long as it's done.

It is handy to have the condo, the realtor and the buyer all right there in the same building. The buyer lives 2 doors down from the realtor and the condo is two floors up. Kind of tidy, I think.

It's that time of the month. I checked my meal account last night and ooops, I've done it again. Not spent enough. So between now and the 11th, I need to spend spend spend. The menus for next week come out today so that will help. I can get eggs and bread and some, limited, other stuff in the Bistro (our version of a 7/11) downstairs. But, I gotta start spending now or there will be money left on the table (horrors!).

Really, I don't care. It's so luxurious to be able to order whatever meals I want whenever I want. And not, if I want. Just the best life. And I'm so very grateful.

Oh, the book author/speaker yesterday turned out to be absolutely delightful. Robert Dugoni. I have read some of his stuff but now, of course I need to read the rest. He was just a great speaker and he was great for this crowd. The audience was just delighted.

Tonight is the ABBA concert. That should be a hoot.

Man, I LOVE these blinds!!

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I'm criminally boggled

30 May 2025 14:44
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Welsh farmer pleads guilty to stealing more than 70 sheep from neighbour.

The term 'rustled' is invoked: 'At least 73 ewes in lamb were rustled in March'.

Alas, this does not sound at all like the Old West of the movies of my youth:

[He] told the court he had acted because of financial pressure but understood his actions were “unacceptable”, BBC Wales reported. Williams added that he “deeply” regretted stealing the sheep and “feels ashamed”.

This is downright weird, though, coming over as somewhere between performance art and participant observation??? Or maybe more like anthropologists who 'go native' if they spend too long in the field, this is a sad warning of what happens to criminology lecturers?

Woman who calls herself ‘UK’s poshest thief’ fined for stealing Le Creuset cookware:

A former criminology lecturer who calls herself the “UK’s poshest thief” has been fined for stealing more than £1,000-worth of Le Creuset cookware, steaks, wine and gin.
Pauline Al Said and her husband, Mark Wheatcroft, have been fined £2,500 between them after the thefts from a garden centre and a branch of Marks & Spencer.
....
Representing themselves, the couple, from Southsea in Hampshire, told Portsmouth crown court their actions were on the “lower end”.

Personally, I think 'stealing your Le Creuset cookware' is in the same area of tackiness as, what was it, 'people who bought their furniture', or was it silverware?

I also think it is tacky to call yourself 'UK's poshest thief' and a pretty sure sign that you are a very long way from being the C21st equivalent of Raffles the Amateur Cracksman.

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Showing off some of the new stuff I got with my birthday. Some music paper and art paper and new washi tape.

But it wasn't purple enough for me.



Unlike many collage folks, I rarely put human figures or faces in my collages but this lady seemed liked she belonged.

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It was supposed to be a no-shopping day again, but I ended up going to Walmart to get another wrist brace, since I figured I’d given the other enough of a trial. So last night I slept with a brace on both wrists for the first time.

I did a load of laundry, as well as the usual amount of hand-washing dishes and scooping of kitty litter.

I finished Exit Strategy yesterday and read some fanfic. I stopped by the library to return and pick-up a book. I also took a nap in the afternoon. Why am I so tired?!! It can’t ~all be the weather, can it? (Maybe I should ask my PCP to add an iron test to my blood work next time.)

I visited my aunt (she was getting a perm when I arrived, so I sat in the hair salon room for our visit), and held my daily telephone conversation with my mom.

I baked salmon for Pip’s supper. Once again, not my thing, so I made oatmeal and toast for myself because I was feeling chilled.

I also e-mailed some photos of one of the garage cats to the vet to see if they could give us an idea of what to do (he’s scratched a good sized wound behind his ear; we think he might have ear mites), but they won’t give us any suggestions without a visit.

Temps started out at 53.6(F) and reached 71.1. It was overcast all day with some sprinkles, but the the sun peeked through in the evening.

(Today I have the final follow-up visit with my surgeon!)

Blessed Shall He Be

30 May 2025 08:34
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 Psalm 137 is a bit strong. It's also heart wrenchingly beautiful.

It begins "By the waters of Babylon we sat down and wept* and ends "O daughter of Babylon, wasted with misery.... blessed shall he be that taketh thy children and throweth them against the stones."

There are many folk on both sides of the war in the middle east who are feeling- and acting in the spirit of- that last verse.

(Incidentally, the British Quakers, speaking through the mouthpiece of the Yearly Meeting, have become the first of our "churches" to call Netanyahu's war aims what they so obviously are- genocide.) 

The question arose at my theological college in the mid seventies whether we, as good, milky Christians, should be chanting those final words in our worship, but my friend John Armson- who was then chaplain- said absolutely yes we should, because we all have the potential for pitiless fury in our hearts and should acknowlege it.....

Otherwise it has the potential to leap out suddenly, take us unawares and master us....

Poet's Corner

29 May 2025 14:29
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Field Guide by Tony Hoagland

Once, in the cool blue middle of a lake,
up to my neck in that most precious element of all,

I found a pale-gray, curled-upwards pigeon feather
floating on the tension of the water

at the very instant when a dragonfly,
like a blue-green iridescent bobby pin,

hovered over it, then lit, and rested.
That’s all.

I mention this in the same way
that I fold the corner of a page

in certain library books,
so that the next reader will know

where to look for the good parts.

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My prompt was 'insects' and technically worms aren't insects, but they are in a section of Hamlet with maggots and that's how I came by them. I tried to do a poem in the manner of the one above. The title and references are from that section of Hamlet (Act 4, Scene 3).


we fat all creatures else to fat us by okapi

worms, those that feast on beggar and on king,
Hamlet’s only emperor for diet, his certain convocation

of politic, the ones who supped on Polonius, the ones that baited
hooks so that kings might progress through the guts of beggars,

twice coated, by slime and by scale, these worms
did not note the variable service of fat and lean,

and never once did they shove a fist of too many plastic
wrappers

to the bottom of the bin
and wince

at the crinkling
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My attention was recently drawn, as we say, to an early C20th composer, and I thought, that name sounds familiar, so I pottered off to look at my database of notes, and yes, they were hanging out in sex reform circles, interesting, no, especially as they seem generally to be described as 'reclusive' -

So anyway, I went to look up their entry in the Oxford Dictionary of National Biography and it is all about The Music (they were also apparently a top-level performer as well as prolific composer) and nothing about this other aspect.

And some while ago I perchanced to look up the ODNB entry for an early C20th lawyer whom I had come across in those same circles, and he was all about anti-censorship, and reforming the divorce laws (and we suspect also handling these sensitive matters for his mates in his professional capacity, no doubt) -

Very worthy.

He was also, I have come across indications in correspondence and biographies, rather a Not Safe In Taxis kinda guy, or at least, the handsy menace of the 1917 Club.

I don't actually know if there's a procedure for saying to editors of ODNB 'Hi, I have Further Info', let alone 'by the way, it's dishing the dirt'.

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This series of entries is commentary on my lifelong quest to read all of Agatha Christie's works in UK publication order. It was begun in January 2021.

Endless Night (1967) was a slog. None of the characters are likeable and because I have been consistently reading so much Christie, I recognized the plot points and guessed what was happening very early on. It's very much like Death on the Nile in some respects but without the Nile to make it interesting and intriguing and the other amusing characters to make it fun and Poirot and Race. Much of it was just tedious from a reader point of view but not, perhaps, from a ficcer point of view working out how the misdirection and manipulation is being done. The narrator's name is Michael Rogers and the poor rich girl is Ellie and the secretary/companion is Greta. And I'm not sorry I'm done with it. Here's a summary:

A newlywed couple faces a series of mysterious events and threats after building their dream house on a cursed land.

Next up: I've discovered to my great consternation that I skipped over a couple of books in the winter. So I will go back and do The Mirror Crack'd from Side to Side and The Clocks, both of which I remember very well and have enjoyed.

It's the boiler, stupid...

29 May 2025 09:43
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I just got a note from Erica that the pool's issue which was a thermostat, is now a boiler. Very sad trombone.

No telling how long that's going to take. And, so, it means I'm going to have to do something else physical in the meantime. And, apparently, knitting does not count.

I just reviewed all the classes they have and they have a lot and none, not one, appeals.

So I think it's going to be the machines down in the gym. They have treadmills and elliptical and bikes. I need to get my ass over there and do one of those for some minutes every day. I should start today. But I probably won't.

Thursday

29 May 2025 06:54
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I checked my alarm a million times. It's been more than a week since I had to get up at 5:30 for volleyball and I did not want to miss it. So I woke up at 4, 4:30, 5 and 5:30 and the alarm did actually go off. I fed the cats and hopped into my suit and went to the pool. Where I found Steve sitting in a chair on the deck and no one else around.

"Waiting for me?" "Waiting for you to find out if you want to play in the cold water." So the pool was supposed to be fixed yesterday and warm today. We don't know about the former but the latter definitely did not happen. Steve and I agreed that playing the cold just was not fun and we called it. We put a sign on the door and split.

I set Alexa to close the blinds at 1 am so that the morning sun will not scream at me first thing. Alexa got the shades all lowered and I think it pissed off the sun. No sign of sun. It's a drizzly day.

Biggie has decided he does not like any pill pockets any more but he's fine with my just tossing the pills down his throat so ok.

The Phillies play two games today! The first one starts at 10. Excellent.

I had this giant decorative plate that I picked up at Goodwill years ago. It just appealed to me. When I moved in here, Christian picked a great spot for it. Except. Julio also picked that spot to climb, sit, crawl on so for a year and a half now, I've been waiting for the crash. It finally happened last night. Scare the bejesus out of Julio. I replaced it with a nice tall basket. And now there's no more waiting.

I forgot to attend my last HOA meeting on Tuesday. Oh well. The end. Tomorrow.

Time to hop in the shower and get this day really going.

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I had a chiropractic appointment this morning. I mentioned the bruised feeling after last week’s adjustment and he wasn’t sure why it was sore after. If he’d had to try a couple of times to get it to go back in, then it would be obvious, but that wasn’t the case. So I guess we don’t know and we’ll see what happens after this adjustment, while hoping it doesn’t hurt again this week.

This would’ve been a no-shopping day, but I wanted some fruit so I made a quick stop at Price Chopper while I was downtown and got in a short walk (one lap) around the park. (And another shortie later with the puppers.) I also got Chinese for lunch.

I did a load of laundry, as well as the usual amount of hand-washing dishes and scooping of kitty litter, paid some bills online, and placed an online order (and naturally forgot one of the main things I’d wanted to get). I grilled baby back ribs for Pip’s supper. It’s not my thing, so I had the fruit I purchased.

I started the next Murderbot story and watched some HGTV programs. I typed in ~2,500 words on my [community profile] intoabar fic and got it edited and posted!

I think I very nearly allowed myself to be scammed by someone trying to get into my computer. I caught on (eventually) and noped out. I got a bunch of flashing error messages with a message that was super loud and everything was locked up and I couldn’t turn down the volume or close out of anything. It told me to NOT turn off my computer or I’d lose data and TO call the number, which I stupidly did. You know what eventually worked? Turning off my computer. Be careful out there, folks!

Temps started out at 47.8(F) and reached 80.4. There was more sun, which was nice.

Last Call For Cards

29 May 2025 10:56
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Due to the kind assistance of friends who have requested cards over the last few months, my pile of them is reduced, but there are still some available (including a further six which I found in another box), so if you would like a card, or if you've already received one and would like a second, then do let me know.

Comments will be screened, so please leave your address - unless I already have it - and cards will arrive at some point, depending on the vagaries of your and my postal systems and when I can get to the post office for non-UK cards.

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