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Wow, this crass ... whatever it is where ppl are judged by their hotness and whether you'd want to ogle or f**k them has long annoyed me. And ppl say it as a joke but really? What does that say about THEM to judge someone else so harshly over looks?

It is one of my issues too. Having been called a MILF at one time, my son was upset at the guy he worked w. who used the term although J-man at first said it was a compliment. When I replied 'my worth is not up to some 20-something year old and his of whether I'm still f**kable' J-man realized what it really meant. And he was judged for being the tall, skinny gay guy who was a fetish, and realized sometimes it was not who he was that appealed to other guys but his physical body being so thin. (he has gained some weight at age 28 but is still tall, thinnish, not in the uber thin fetish range)