Was already having anxiety spikes. Now with more fun

[missdiane]

Got a text from Sis around 8am that the assisted living was sending Dad to the hospital since he's having chest pain and elevated pulse. I got a call from the hospital at 10:30 to clarify information since Sis is a coward and intentionally left me as the medical POA even though the home still contacts her. Dad did know that he was widowed but didn't know his address (not surprising, I wouldn't expect he would) but what's sad is he didn't know his birthday and he also thinks people are coming to visit. I doubt Sis or her husband are and I don't want to get into it with them.

It seems they must not have sent his cell with him this time which is frustrating but it's not like I can do much from here as it is. I'm hoping that it turns out to be minor since he has had afib/palpitation issues for years and that they can get him stabilized and get him back home. He has a care package from me arriving today as it is. Poor old guy.

Comments

[halfmoon_mollie1]

hugs to you and your Dad. I know that sounds dumb but it's all I can think of to say.

[missdiane]

I will gladly accept them for both of us. It's too bad his silly system couldn't wait a day since today one of the nurses was going to bring in her kitty and I think he could have used some feline therapy

[halfmoon_mollie1]

when my Mom was in the hospital, someone with a therapy dog came by. Mom was thrilled. Perhaps after he gets back 'home' there can be some kitty therapy.

[spiffikins]

Sending all the good thoughts!

Totally agree though - asking your dad what his address is, is not a useful question, given the circumstances!