Still haven't moved Mom but Sis called that she's still getting good information from the place we're looking at (older but looks ok and like their good scores for wound management and keeping people active). There was another place she had the feelers out for because the first place we're looking at doesn't have assisted living, just nursing care and Dad is able to get around and feed himself and all that.
However, Sis did ask if they have memory care and they do and Dad absolutely needs this. He called me about half an hour ago and he is not doing well by himself in the apartment. He was almost in tears that he keeps forgetting our names. The people Sis is dealing with at the new potential place are really nice and it's possible that they could be in a room together which would be great. Sis has calls in to the social worker and their doctor so the doctor can especially get the ruling that Dad is in need of memory nursing care.
So still crossing all crossibles.
However, Sis did ask if they have memory care and they do and Dad absolutely needs this. He called me about half an hour ago and he is not doing well by himself in the apartment. He was almost in tears that he keeps forgetting our names. The people Sis is dealing with at the new potential place are really nice and it's possible that they could be in a room together which would be great. Sis has calls in to the social worker and their doctor so the doctor can especially get the ruling that Dad is in need of memory nursing care.
So still crossing all crossibles.